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April 14, 2005

Online Dating May Not Be A Perfect Marriage Match

Category: Online Dating

NBC5.com - Money - Online Dating May Not Be A Perfect Marriage Match

Some Say Advertising Tactics Misleading

CHICAGO — It’s a sign of the times — and a booming business.

It is estimated that there are more than 800 online dating Web sites, up from more than 200 from last year alone. It’s a highly competitive landscape where companies fight for consumers’ business, Target 5’s Lisa Parker reported. Those companies fight for business using tactics that some say may not always be fair.

Beyond the smiling faces of those happily-wedded couples seen advertised on many online dating Web sites, there is some sobering information recently revealed in one new study that paints a much different picture.

Deana Mason, 35, said she went online and found equally big promises.

“I’ve seen all these commercials, you know, they’re like, ‘It’s scientifically proven, find the love of your life. You will find your husband on our site,’” Mason said. “You know, ‘The most marriages of any site online. And I think, ‘Well you know, why am I not finding this Mr. Right online?’”

Chase Demoss also said he surfed the Internet hoping to meet a match.

“It seems like all the sites that I’ve been to are all geared towards marriage, get married,” Demoss said.

In the fiercely competitive realm of online dating, companies are struggling to stand out, Parker reported. Some now offer high-tech extras like instant messaging and video. Many feature pictures of promise — clients who found wedded bliss through cyberspace.

“Well, there are a lot of things that online dating does well,” said Mark Thompson of WeAttract.com ” Arranging marriages is not one of them. You see lots of happy couples. But what they’re not going to tell you is that out of about 2,000 people they match up, only one couple is actually going to get married.”

Once recent industry report accuses the sites of using advertising that is misleading, unsubstantiated — or at least exaggerated. Advertisements, some say, are in need of regulation.

“These companies should be following the FTC guidelines for advertising,” said Glenn Hutchinson, also of WeAttract.com. “If they’re really prominently showing couples that have gotten married through their site, then they need to be very candid about how frequently that occurs and how many users actually find those happy marriages.”

Some key research many Web sites do not share with their future clients are their success rate — just how many of their clients do end up married or in long-term relationships. Observers said the skyrocketing growth seen in online dating this year is showing the first signs of slowing down.

March 20, 2005

Podato - won’t you butter me up!

Podato - won’t you butter me up!

I received this comment on an interesting online dating site that offers podcasting:

Hi, I read your blog from time to time and notice you have an interest in listening to podcast. Maybe with your on-line dating profile you may want to not only write it but record it?

We just launched podato.com last week and are looking for people to start it off.

Basically it’s a dating sinlge for singles. They record a sound clip from their mobile phone and send it to podato@gmail.com via MMS, it’s placed on our site so people can download to their MP3 player.

I think it’s very handy for busy people who are always on the go.

Comment by Liam Burke — March 19, 2005

Online Dating Industry Could Generate More Love

Category: Online Dating

Press Releases - February 14, 2005 - Online Dating Industry Could Generate More Love

February 14, 2005

Online Dating Industry Could Generate More Love This
Valentine’s Day, Says Keynote

* Customer Satisfaction with Online Dating Sites is Low
* 61% of Customers Are Concerned That Other Members Misrepresent Themselves
* 30% of Customers Were Married or Living with Significant Other
* Customers Want Access to Personality Tests and Background Checks
* Yahoo! Personal, Match.com Deliver Best Customer Experience
* Keynote Study is First to Examine Customer Experience at Leading Online Dating Sites

SAN MATEO, Calif., —February 14, 2005 — With Valentine’s Day fast approaching, customers and prospective customers of online dating Web sites are concerned about their prospects for finding a compatible match online, and as a result are looking for more functionality, guidance and information from those sites, according to a new study. The syndicated research study released today by Keynote Systems (Nasdaq “KEYN”), The Internet Performance Authority®, provides the first competitive benchmarking of leading online dating Web sites based on behavioral data.

According to the study, Yahoo! Personals and Match.com were the sites providing the best search functionality and dating information and, because of this, earned the industry’s highest customer experience rankings. Yahoo! Personals, American Singles and eHarmony earned the industry’s highest satisfaction rankings among prospective customers of online dating Web sites.
Keynote Customer Experience Rankings Customers

Keynote Customer Experience Rankings Prospective Customers
1
Yahoo! Personals
1
Yahoo! Personals
2
Match.com
2
American Singles
3
True
3
eHarmony

The Keynote Customer Experience (CE) Rankings for the Online Dating Industry are based on research with 2,000 customers and 2,000 prospective customers as they interacted with 10 leading online dating Web sites. The American Singles, Black Planet, eHarmony, Friend Finder, Friendster, Lavalife, Match.com, PerfectMatch, Tickle, True, and Yahoo! Personals Web sites were evaluated as part of the study. In addition to traditional opinion data, Keynote’s proprietary research technology collects detailed qualitative and behavioral data as users performed tasks at each site. The sites topping the Keynote CE Rankings performed best, in aggregate, across all 250+ measured metrics and the indices compiled from these metrics.

Consumers Seeking Greater Satisfaction from Online Dating Sites, Prospective Matches
“Consumer satisfaction with online dating sites is considerably lower than satisfaction levels seen with other online services. However, these diminished satisfaction levels are driven primarily by the personal expectations of the customer and their interaction with other members,” said Dr. Bonny Brown, an expert in behavioral psychology and director of research and public services for Keynote.

The most common frustration reported by customers in the study stemmed from a lack of trust or comfort in other members, 61% of customers are concerned that other members are misrepresenting themselves and as many as one in three (33%) express a lack of trust in other members. Specifically, customers felt other members often misrepresented themselves and that there were too few compatible members available on the site for them.

Customers also expressed concern about the lack of organization and poor search functionality on some sites. In these areas there was a marked difference between sites, with the best sites being well organized and easy to use, and the poorer sites being cluttered with ads or heavy text. The best sites also offered well-developed member search functionality with the ability to modify search criteria, whereas the poorer sites had more rudimentary search functions or no search function at all which made it more difficult to find compatible members.

“Online dating services face unique challenges not found in other online industries, but sites that meet these challenges by providing strong search functionality and provide dating guidance are rewarded with industry-leading customer loyalty and a positive impact on their brands,” said Brown.

The Search Starts with Search Engines
Because of relatively weak brand development, just 14% of prospective customers go directly to an online dating site when shopping for online dating services. Rather, most (83%) start at a search engine, with Google and Yahoo! being the leading destinations. This is a clear advantage for Yahoo! Personals, as more than 40% of those who searched for online dating information on the Yahoo! Search engine ended up going directly to Yahoo! Personals. eHarmony was the most common destination for those who started their search with Google.

The member search function of online dating services also plays a critical role in customer satisfaction, and was ranked as the most important feature of online dating Web sites. Yahoo! Personals also excelled in this category, while less than half of all customers expressed satisfaction with the member search function at other online dating sites. Customers had a particularly hard time determining how to save a member search they would like to repeat in the future. Customers at Yahoo! Personals had a 95% success rate in this task, followed closely by Lavalife (87%) and Match.com (85%).

“Keynote’s study shows that the role of search functionality and search engines in the online dating industry is critical,” said Dr. Brown. “There are more than 100 million single people in America, and by some estimates up to 50% are members or considering membership on online dating Web sites.”

Demand For Personality Tests, Background Checks
One-third (33%) of customers directly expressed a desire for additional guidance and information from their online dating Web site. Customers expressed the greatest interest in tests that help determine compatibility and features that ensure safety with 50% of customers expressing interest in personality tests and an equal number (50%) interested in some type of physical attraction test. A surprisingly large number (45%) of customers expressed a desire to have access to background checks on other members.

Married Persons Make Up Significant Percentage of Online Dating Community
The surprising demand for background checks may, in part, be related to the unexpectedly large number of married persons or those in a committed relationship using online dating services. Keynote found that upwards of 30% of online dating service customers in the study were married or living with a significant other/partner. Interestingly, customers that are married or in a committed relationship had the highest satisfaction levels with online dating sites.

Tickle is ‘Fun,’ True is ‘Safe’
When selecting attributes to describe different online dating sites, Tickle is considered the ‘fun’ site with 73% of customers describing the site that way. Yahoo! Personals is considered the ‘friendly’ site (76%), and True is considered the ‘safe’ site (69%). Ratings for each site based on an array of such characteristics are provided in the full Keynote report. Prospective customers sign up for online dating services primarily to meet a wider array of people, with 70% of prospective customers citing this as a reason. Screening dates to see if they had the values and traits desired was cited by 63% of prospective customers. Just 19% of prospective customers said they were considering online dating because they were not happy with traditional dating options.

The entire report, Keynote Customer Experience (CE) Rankings for the Online Dating Industry, is a 100+ page examination of the online dating industry containing hundreds of additional data points and a detailed analysis of the findings. For information about purchasing the full report, visit http://www.keynote.com/syndicated.html.

March 19, 2005

my online dating profile

This is my official declaration of intent to write up a ‘profile’ of myself for online dating sites in the hopes that some good woman will read it, fall in love with me (or decide she can put up with a guy like me) and eventually marry me.

Hopefully by publicly announcing the intitiation of this project I will feel some obligation to actually follow through to completion, anyway that’s my theory.

I was thinking of where to start and how to go about this.  Perhaps I could start by using the profile questioniares of some of the more popular dating sites and later add whatever else seems appropriate.

Before I go to far, I had better fix my built-in spellchecker so I don’t appear to be semi-illiterate.  I guess that’s my first characteristic I’ll mention, I’m a little more literate than semi, but a fairly poor speller.  2nd is I basically write how I speak and pay little attention to formal grammar, so please excuse me, especially if you’re an english teacher.

March 17, 2005

Lycos Dating Search

Category: Online Dating

search several dating sites with one search.

Lycos Dating Search - Relationship matches from top sites

March 10, 2005

Report on Online Dating Industry

weAttract.com, Inc. Releases Report on Online Dating Industry

weAttract.com, Inc. Releases Report on Online Dating Industry

Consumers are Having Second Thoughts About Online Dating. Are the Real Benefits Getting Lost in Over Promises?

(PRWEB) March 9, 2005 — weAttract.com, an independent research and development firm, released a report today identifying seven opportunities and seven threats facing online dating sites and the potential risks to consumers. weAttract.com and Adviser, Philip Zimbardo, Ph.D., Stanford University, argue online dating sites are over promising and under-delivering. The full report may be viewed at www.weattract.com.

Threats
Persuasion techniques and the promises they support are the most noticeable aspect of the industry. We are concerned the industry has applied more social psychology research to selling products than making products worth selling. “As a psychologist, I am concerned when I see commercials and ads of all these happy couples without any reference to this not being typical results,” notes Dr. Mark Thompson, President & C.E.O., weAttract.com.

Some online dating sites have moved to “arranging marriages.” There is no evidence that online dating or scientific psychology is able to pair individuals who will enjoy happy, lasting marriages. If one trusts the statistics offered by the sites, simple calculations reveal the odds of finding a spouse online are very low. “A claim that a site can deliver your “soul mate” or the “love of your life” probably does a lot of damage to many people. What is frustrating to most of us, may be particularly injurious to those who are already lonely and hurting,” says Dr. Glenn Hutchinson, Vice President of Scientific Development, weAttract.com.

Opportunities
Dr. Zimbardo comments, “Online dating sites carry a unique responsibility - they directly intervene into a user’s personal life. However, with this comes an opportunity to educate and help users develop skills for long-term successful relationships.”

The report includes a call to action for the industry to establish some basic guidelines to protect the consumer. “We are asking all online dating companies to participate in a forum in June to begin this process. There are enormous opportunities for the future, but we will never reach them if we pretend we’re already there,” says Dr. Mark Thompson.

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